The word for Five Minute Friday today is choose.
She sits on her bed. She’s been a tiger baby, and that’s the rule: If you are going to be a tiger baby, you sit on your bed until you are ready to be a sweetie pie. She is scowling at me, and there is a big tear clinging to her cheek. If only she would choose to be sweet, she would be free.
She thinks I am the one choosing, because I am the one who decided she couldn’t watch a show until later. That was not what she wanted. That was not her plan. So when I didn’t follow her lead, Tiger Baby erupted.
This is the way it is for most of us. We get stuck in a rut with a heart full of tiger baby when we could be free. Free to choose another way. Yes, our plans are thwarted. They go ways we don’t want or don’t expect. But we don’t have to be trapped in our own prison. We don’t have to be the tiger to all around. We can choose to be free. We can be sweet. And when the tiger baby is put behind, we are empowered by this truth: I can choose to do what is good and right regardless.
Note: Later, she found me and told me I could come out of my room if I would stop being mean to everyone. Apparently, when I lay down the law, that is being mean. (Being mean is putting boundaries on when my children watch a show or play on the computer. Being mean is laying down consequences when children fail to follow my clear directions.) What can I say but that I am a mean mom.
What is Five Minute Friday?
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1. Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking.
2. Link back here and invite others to join in.
3. And then absolutely, no ifs, ands or buts about it, you need to visit the person who linked up before you & encourage them in their comments. Seriously. That is, like, the rule. And the fun. And the heart of this community.